After reading a couple of stories, watching some movies, and listening to hundreds of complains from my friends about love, and being in a one-sided love and couple of crushes.. I think I'm qualified enough to write!! (No I'm not.. but who'll stop me ^^)
It's a common believe that love is a magical feeling that everyone go through and I totally agree with it... however, it gets hellishly hurtful so many times that you doubt all your believes over it..
There is nothing wrong with getting rejected.. If anything, its waaaay better than getting no response and live your days thinking you have something, but when one day they get a new partner, you get heartbroken over an illusion of love. Dont be that loser who thinks all is ok as long as I try hard to change their mind. If someone doesnt want you, just bounce away, begging for love is the worst thing you can do to yourself. It gives the indication that you dont love yourself enough. Put yourself first, its important for you to do so. You dont have to be the awesomest, most handsome, most intelligent peson on earth to deserve to be loved. Simply being you is already a high qualification. If you value yourself high enough, people will value you more.
Let's say you were fortunate enough to get someone who loves you and you love them back. One thing you should keep in mind is, if it's doesnt seem right to you dont do anything even if the love of your life demanded it (unless it was life or death situation then you might need to reconsider your choices). I have seen many people try their best to keep a relationship working even if that meant sacrificing the most valuable things they have. Dont lose yourself in order to keep what you believe the perfect thing ever. If it was perfect for you, it would be made to match all your flaws perfectly. Love should be the perfect jigsaw of your life. If you had to reshape your piece to fit, the final picture will be crooked.
Now, for all of you out there like me who always in love but never have the courage to walk to them and express it, well I cant help you much since whatever I will say next would be hypocrisy couse I would say things that I would never do. Nothing bad can happen if you walked up to them and said hi. If any, its waaaay better than just creepily stalking all their moves and looking at them with that weird smile (yes, I do have that weird smile). The worst thing that can happen is them rejecting you, which is good since you'll move on faster and jump on to the next crush you'll have. the more time you spend in just looking at them, the deeper you'll fall for them and the harder for you to get up once they are gone (again, yes, I've been there). Just go, say hi, maybe you'll find out they are not worth it.
Well, thats all I got. I need to go back to my classes :(. I know this might be the most awkward thing to read (specially coming from someone like me) but I felt like writing it so you. DEAL WITH IT!!!... JK have a nice day ^^
It's a common believe that love is a magical feeling that everyone go through and I totally agree with it... however, it gets hellishly hurtful so many times that you doubt all your believes over it..
There is nothing wrong with getting rejected.. If anything, its waaaay better than getting no response and live your days thinking you have something, but when one day they get a new partner, you get heartbroken over an illusion of love. Dont be that loser who thinks all is ok as long as I try hard to change their mind. If someone doesnt want you, just bounce away, begging for love is the worst thing you can do to yourself. It gives the indication that you dont love yourself enough. Put yourself first, its important for you to do so. You dont have to be the awesomest, most handsome, most intelligent peson on earth to deserve to be loved. Simply being you is already a high qualification. If you value yourself high enough, people will value you more.
Let's say you were fortunate enough to get someone who loves you and you love them back. One thing you should keep in mind is, if it's doesnt seem right to you dont do anything even if the love of your life demanded it (unless it was life or death situation then you might need to reconsider your choices). I have seen many people try their best to keep a relationship working even if that meant sacrificing the most valuable things they have. Dont lose yourself in order to keep what you believe the perfect thing ever. If it was perfect for you, it would be made to match all your flaws perfectly. Love should be the perfect jigsaw of your life. If you had to reshape your piece to fit, the final picture will be crooked.
Now, for all of you out there like me who always in love but never have the courage to walk to them and express it, well I cant help you much since whatever I will say next would be hypocrisy couse I would say things that I would never do. Nothing bad can happen if you walked up to them and said hi. If any, its waaaay better than just creepily stalking all their moves and looking at them with that weird smile (yes, I do have that weird smile). The worst thing that can happen is them rejecting you, which is good since you'll move on faster and jump on to the next crush you'll have. the more time you spend in just looking at them, the deeper you'll fall for them and the harder for you to get up once they are gone (again, yes, I've been there). Just go, say hi, maybe you'll find out they are not worth it.
Well, thats all I got. I need to go back to my classes :(. I know this might be the most awkward thing to read (specially coming from someone like me) but I felt like writing it so you. DEAL WITH IT!!!... JK have a nice day ^^